Its something on which a million poems,songs,stories,films and what not have been created. ever since i started to realize what being in love means i have also been hearing about the wonderful feeling and how one can only feel it and cant explain it.
Well to be honest i feel that this is true.If you have never been in love you cannot really understand what it is like.Now many of you will argue about what i meant by this - again some will question the statement of "being in love".So let me make myself very clear to start with.
By being in love i mean when you trully love someone and this is not just some form of attraction physical or otherwise.I cant explain further but i guess you will get what i meant to say.
Its just a beautiful feeling...you feel like life has a entire different meaning when you think of both of you together.You crave to be near each other always...You always seem to find endless things to talk about. A few days back my room mate was asking me about what people talk about with their person of love each day...dont they get tired nd bored of talking?
Its a very natural thought for someone who hasnt experienced this in their life.I too once had this question this inquisitiveness....but i can assure you its a whole new world out there and you realize that only when it happens to you.
There is another aspect i want to talk about being in love.A lot of people have told me that people get more liberal more open minded when they are in love. This is true but there is another element too in this which many people dont state or are afraid to disclose -its jealousy and reciprocity. People in love often tend to expect certain things from their partners and often undergo serious mental discomfort when they dont get something from their partners which they had expected. It might be nobody's fault just a natural thing that their partners have done but to them it's something that was wrong just because it failed to match their expectation.Human mind is sooo complex however simple we might think it is. People also get jealous because they crave for all the attention from their partners...ha ha it seems the child in us comes out.Well i know of a few unfortunate incidents which strained relationships because either of the partners failed to understand this feeling of their partners.
Its tough isnt it?But then again whats love if you cannot understand your partner.
Nyways enough of my crazy blabbing...But however it is the end point is that everyone should atleast experience this feeling once in their life.Its a whole new hidden chapter of the book of life.
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